Mia Mattsson Mercer

Children and Animal Warrior

Tag Archives: conversation

I Lead my Heart with Courage

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When there is sun and blue sky, life feels lighter

When you are with a friend, life feels good.

When someone asks, how are your, not only with their words, but also with their eyes.

Feels amazing.

They stop their own life for a minute, and connects with you.

I see when you hurry up to avoid me, but I smile towards you. I know you feel guilty, and I don’t want you to have that burden, because of me.

I continue pretending everything is fine.

I am thankful, you know, that I finally can see clearly with my own eyes, even if it hurts.

But only in that moment, I let it hurt.

I don’t judge you. You see, I am learning not to judge myself. So I turn around, and walks towards the horses. We are one.

I feel accepted without any words.

That’s Amore!

The Weight on a Child’s Shoulder

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A child’s shoulder were not built to bear the weight of their parents choices.

You cannot change what you don’t know, however, when you do know, you have a choice. It’s painful, maybe shameful, frightening, feeling alone and scared.

But you can do it! Get professional help, and do not be afraid of trying different ways. As long as your intuition, and feeling empowered grows, you will grow towards healing.

It will take time.

“You will never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine.” — John C. Maxwell–

That’s Amore!

Be who you Admire without Copying

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I become the people I surrond myself with, and I choose to be around people who motivate  and push me to be a better version of myself every single day. 

I am not saying good bye to all my old friends, however, I am welcoming new friends.

Its going to be a good 2020, I have decided.

I am back in school, studying  Children’s Rights in Theory and Practise at Harvard on line.

Still rescuing Animals which will always be a big part of my life. Soon another interesting project is coming up. Structuring up my new life first.

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Privat Photo; against prostitution and trafficking Stuttgart.

Words Transforms who You are

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Yesterday, a person told me, “You are impossible!”

Now, you are reading it with your own inner ‘voice’ and it might not sound so bad to you. And also, in what contents was it said to me? Was their a little giggle in the executers voice, or was it said in a frustration tone?

Words are powerful, and words can have different meanings.

We use words every day, but are we aware of how they are being said, and received?

The whole day yesterday alone in my car for 4 hours, was I wrestling with the words ‘you are impossible’ It was like my brain had this dialog;

‘you are impossible!’ followed quickly with the words; ‘No you are not!’

“yes you are!”

“shut up!”

“no I won’t , you are impossible!”

Frustration that I was actually waisting my time listening to this yida yada.

However, it actually goes way back in time, to my childhood. Being told I wasn’t good enough, and I couldn’t do this or that.

Teachers, telling me I wasn’t good enough! (not all of course)

When being born, you start to receive words, and for each year, you are being included with more and more different people. That will tell you, nice words, harsh words, and words that can kill you (suicide)

The brain is a receiver. “You are stupid!” someone tells you (or you say it yourself).

The brain says, “Ok I am stupid”!

Encourage yourself, family, children, strangers, schoolchildren, animals….everyone you meet. Even to our Nature. Then yours, and others internal voice will be so much pretty.

Be aware of what you say, and be aware of what you listen to.

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That’s Amore!

 

The Best Strangers

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The health juice even test better with the company by this gorgeous stranger.

I love when fourlegged (or three) comes up and says ‘hello’

Couldn’t have a better conversation partner today!

That’s Amore!