Mia Mattsson Mercer

Children and Animal Warrior

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Emotions are Loud in the Silence

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🖤 Emotionally abuse is to often not taken seriously. It cannot always been seen. Or, explained in words by Children and Animals.


When an Animal or Child are sending voiceless actions, it’s speaking to you.


That’s Voiceless Amore!

To My Unborn Daughter

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I wrote this manuscript back in 2000 about child and women abuse. I was single, no children and wanted it that way.


The Editor at the Publishing Company thought it was a page turner. The Chief of the Publisher said no — 👨🏻with the words; “no normal person wants to read about this subject.”

Are we ready now! 💪🏻 I sure am…again.

(❤️ no pity pls, instead 💪🏻)

Ikväll på ClubHouse

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Grieving Hope

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Grieving is an important way to say goodbye to a loved one. Painful as it is, it’s a way to remember that you have felt love. Grieving is an important direction towards healing. It doesn’t mean to forget, it only means when time is right, you are ready to give the love you had, to someone else.

You are not replacing. You are starting to understand the meaning of unconditionally love.

When it was time to say goodbye to Gummibear, our beloved rescue horse, was it important to have my children present. Their schools understood when I wrote and explained.

The children and I picked wild flowers while talking about life and death. Not to fear, however, dare to feel, and let go.

There is no ending. Only a new beginning, somewhere else, where the grass is greener.

That’s Amore!

The Tone Delivers the Growth

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💚 The way we talk to our children and our horses, becomes their inner voice.

Picture: my brave Max

Ett Samtal som Berör

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Vilket samtal med glada, roliga och berörande djur berättelser. Vilken kväll igen. Tack Carina Lidbom för ett fint samtal på Livestream igårkväll.

Tack alla underbara lyssnare för frågor och hjärtan. Ni berör och inspirerar mig att fortsätta skriva och föra djurens berättelser till er.

Om ni inte kunde vara med igår kväll finns där möjlighet (se bild 2) Gå in på Carinas Instagram sida och tryck på lilla Tv knappen.

Tack underbara Ni ❤️

That’s Amore!

”Lille Julafton ”

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Its ”little Christmas “ (23.11.20) and that means I am allowed to open up on Christmas gift. I always chose the gift which feels like a book.

It’s a Swedish tradition that I invented many years ago, since I could never wait until Christmas Eve.

Christmas = Book

Thank you @helenberg for this amazing diary — designed by @efvaattling

A new “cool” diary, perfect for my new Chapter in life. That’s Amore!

Empower yourself with Strong Survivors

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One thing I learned through the long journey as a victim, was to find strong survivors for support and advice.

These incredible women (and one man ) understands first and foremost, all the different emotions which (many times ) are making it difficult for the mind to move forward.

They are also helping with my recovery and growth, to become whole again. They understand the time it takes. Small steps and big cheers!

What I love with these strong women I am surrounded by, there are never any talk about revenge. Only to get knowledge and love (support) and possibilities for myself. And of course laughters, between the tears.

Now …….

That’s Amore!

I Lead my Heart with Courage

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When there is sun and blue sky, life feels lighter

When you are with a friend, life feels good.

When someone asks, how are your, not only with their words, but also with their eyes.

Feels amazing.

They stop their own life for a minute, and connects with you.

I see when you hurry up to avoid me, but I smile towards you. I know you feel guilty, and I don’t want you to have that burden, because of me.

I continue pretending everything is fine.

I am thankful, you know, that I finally can see clearly with my own eyes, even if it hurts.

But only in that moment, I let it hurt.

I don’t judge you. You see, I am learning not to judge myself. So I turn around, and walks towards the horses. We are one.

I feel accepted without any words.

That’s Amore!

The Weight on a Child’s Shoulder

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A child’s shoulder were not built to bear the weight of their parents choices.

You cannot change what you don’t know, however, when you do know, you have a choice. It’s painful, maybe shameful, frightening, feeling alone and scared.

But you can do it! Get professional help, and do not be afraid of trying different ways. As long as your intuition, and feeling empowered grows, you will grow towards healing.

It will take time.

“You will never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret of your success is found in your daily routine.” — John C. Maxwell–

That’s Amore!