Every week I meet people that truly want to express their pain, but don’t know where to begin. Pain can be overwhelming.
Many, and especially women also feel ashamed that they got fooled in a relationship. That they stayed to long in a toxic relationship. They trusted their partner, later being left with ignorance, hurt, economically broke and left with debts. They try to fight, but when the system also lets them down, the pain inside grows.
Not being seen!
When friends stops to talk to you, or helping. Maybe they say they feel guilty. Or nothing at all.
Your pain grows like a tumor and you lose hope.
Every week I meet a woman that has the same story as the woman before her, and before….
Few men, but there are men suffering with pain. Many time they don’t want to talk. It’s ok! The heart doesn’t have any knowledge about time, since time is an illusion.
Same goes for animals. No time.
When adults come to meet our therapy horse, Julia. I leave them alone together. I keep of course, a “mom” eye, and especially on Julia How she reacts in the moment, together with the person.
A horse never lies, and has never been wrong about a human.
Please try not to see your pain as something shameful. Grow in it, earn it, and talk. If it’s to a horse, psychologists or……someone you can trust.
Your pain gives you a unique insight into the minds of people who have experienced trauma and heartache.